Clash of Perspectives: Inside a Startup Session on Government Grants
How CEOs' Divergent Views Transformed the Dialogue

This afternoon, I hurried to the city for a startup session—it was a single-session event with a lone resource speaker, akin to a speaking lesson. The topic centered on crafting proposals for DOST grant applications. I left home 12 PM, aiming to arrive on time (1 PM), but the session unexpectedly commenced at 2, starting the session an hour late.
During the session, the DOST employee resource speaker delved into requirements, paper types, content structures, and the grant application website for startups. Midway through, some longstanding startup CEOs found the content not aligning with their expectations. Specifically, three startup founders questioned the tedious and time-consuming nature of DOST's grant process. They sought a faster, simpler approach—presenting their products and overall company for evaluation, rather than investing time in extensive paperwork. This sentiment was particularly strong among software-based startups.
Amidst the argument, three distinct CEO personalities emerged:
1the Egotistic CEO
vehemently argued that the current process was irrelevant and time-wasting, advocating for innovation to streamline grant applications. His assertive remarks, including "It's a waste of time," and criticisms of DOST's inefficiency, stood out.
The resource speaker highlighted that the grant is intended to provide crucial support to startups, despite its demanding requirements. Following this, the Egotistic CEO left the room, clearly disappointed by what he perceived as insufficient assistance for startups through the current grant process.
2 The Critical CEO
contributed by questioning the relevance of the session's content to operational startups, suggesting that simpler, more direct approaches akin to private sector funding might be more suitable for software startups.
3 The Missionary CEO
played a crucial role in diffusing tensions, advocating for a middle ground and mediating between the opposing viewpoints. His expressive and empathetic approach contrasted sharply with the Egotistic CEO's fiery demeanor.
Reflecting on the intense debate, I observed the resource speaker visibly affected by the emotional dynamics. Despite the challenges, she remained composed and continued with her slides. She concluded after that she got applause, demonstrating remarkable strength. After her presentation, I observed her briefly on her phone, seemingly managing the aftermath.
In a commendable gesture, the Missionary CEO went in front, extending an apology on behalf of the Egotistic CEO. He expressed a desire to alleviate any feelings of shame or discomfort, citing his role as a missionary. Following this, the Missionary shared his appreciation for the presentation and reiterated the apology.
She then spoke again, her voice carrying a sense of relief and resolve. She emphasized to us, aspiring founders, the arduous process of accessing grants, noting the government's rigorous Commission on Audit requirements.
Reflecting on that, I realize that making other sectors of the government explicitly detail their requirements before allocating government money is essential.
And in case I need funds, I wouldn't opt for that route—it's impractical given the fast-changing nature of the industry. However, I couldn't help but feel sorry for her during those challenging moments.
Additionally, she mentioned also that she understood people like the Egotistic CEO because she encounted a lot of them who are short-tempered and critical of the government. She assured us that their system is continuously evolving and encouraged us to voice our sentiments and suggestions to higher-ups.
On the side of the CEO who walked out, we didn't know what he was going through. Perhaps he had high expectations that the session would help secure funding for his company, and he might have been investing that time into his business or seeking alternative resources. His disappointment likely pushed him to react in that way. Maybe he values his time differently than we do. Well, we can't really say for sure.
Looking back, I don't want to emulate the Egotistic CEO. While I agree with his points, I didn't appreciate his tone and delivery. Despite valuing his outspoken nature, his communication came across as hurtful and lacked compassion. It's important to remember that he was addressing a person, not the entire organization, and the impact of his words was directed solely at her.
He could learn from the Critical CEO, whose approach would have spared her from embarrassment in front of so many people. Perhaps he might be stressed or expecting too much, but the Missionary stood as a mediator, diffusing tension and extending an apology on his behalf. His empathetic demeanor was a comforting presence in a situation she never wanted to find herself in.
I commend her for maintaining her composure throughout, despite the challenging circumstances. Her self-control was admirable, especially considering the unreasonable blame directed at her due to government policies.
This experience has taught me valuable lessons:
1 When defending your point, avoid aggression to prevent causing harm. If you do, take a moment to reflect and apologize sincerely.
2 Emulate the grounded, empathetic approach of missionaries, fostering positivity and resolving conflicts.
3 Clearly articulate your thoughts and ask questions in a respectful manner.
4 Avoid arguing aggressively to prove a point, as perspectives differ and what's true to you may not be to others.
5 Understand the power of apology in easing tensions. While I'm not fond of apologizing like the Egotistic CEO, I recognize its effectiveness in resolving conflicts.
I spent my entire afternoon witnessing this unfold, finding it incredibly intriguing. It underscored the critical importance of money and time management for founders, the influence of financial considerations, and how heated discussions can unexpectedly bring excitement hehe.
In conclusion, this experience marks the longest article I've written on this Kindle so far. Peace out.
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